Although everyone is unique in their tastes, there are a few standard rules for date-time dressing.
Dressing to impress does not always mean dressing comfortably!
You have plenty of time to slob about on your own. So why not make an effort for your date? Of course, it helps to know where you’re going beforehand. Six-inch heels just aren’t practical for rock climbing or hiking if your date happens to be of the outdoorsy, adventurous kind. But they do lengthen legs and convey a sexy, empowered look that may give you the confidence to make the date successful. Men – you may feel at home wearing low-slung jeans, but you could cut a better figure by investing in a belt so your date sees your underwear when she agrees it’s time, not before. Which brings us to...
Bare necessities
A well-known rule of thumb for the ladies is leg or cleavage – not both. This is in support of the idea that it is better to leave something to the imagination instead of flaunting flesh and spoiling the surprise. Again, the destination for the date may influence your decision in this department. If you are part of the London, Manchester, Birmingham or Leeds dating scenes, it is likely your date will end up at one of the excellent clubs these cities have to offer, in which case it helps to dress appropriately. Some clubs and some restaurants have specific dress codes, so check beforehand if possible. Try to achieve a balance between blending in and making sure your date notices you and your idiosyncrasies.
You don’t have to wear a suit to look smart
Both men and women recognise that items of clothing are usually chosen to project a part of our personalities. However, it is women that are more likely to notice the smaller details, such as loose threads and dirty collars. Both sexes should ensure clothes are clean, and if you absolutely have to rush straight from work, spritz on some deodorant – and watch out for those give-away marks.
Highlight your best features
Whether your date was put together by friends, through colleagues or via online dating, chances are this will be the first time you’ve laid eyes on each other, so your mission is to create a memorable first impression. For some this may mean digging out their favourite pair of ‘lucky’ pants (beware the side effect: VPL). However, don’t pretend to be something you’re not by maxing out your credit card for a one-night game of Pimp My Wardrobe. After all, you want your date to fall in love with you, not the labels on your clothes. Work with the gifts you were born with and perhaps throw in a personal quirk to provide an ice-breaker. Once you’ve made your choice, you can then stop worrying about your outfit and get on with enjoying your date! If you like this post, share it in:
1 comments:
I have to disagree with this. I think if you dress in something you are completely uncomfortable with you will be thinking of that constantly as opposed to being yourself. I would advise to dress comfortably, but maybe accessorise or consider the sparse use of a strong colour somewhere to make yourself stand out and be noticed.
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